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Most stuff is OK in Daanbantayan

Wednesday, June 25th, 2008

Since typhoon Fengshen the power has been out in the part of Cebu that I visit (Daanbantayan). But I got a hold of Amy the other day on her cell phone and everyone up there is fine, the house is fine, my car is fine, etc. She said many coconut trees have fallen down, there is still no power or telephone. She’s going to stay with relatives in the city for a few days.

Coincidentally I’m on my way back there in a few days myself. If you want to donate some disaster supplies to some of the families there let me know. I’m sure they can use the usual stuff, rice, clothes, toothpaste, bandaids, etc…

Amy in Daanbantayan

Steve + a Modern, Family-Oriented Subdivision = Hell Frozen Over

Thursday, October 11th, 2007

Yep, bizarre how life works. In America, I would never consider buying a house in a subdivision. Cookie-cutter McMansions on postage-stamp sized lots? The homeowners association gets to decide what color my curtains can be? That’s just plain madness. For years I’ve been laughing at people who sign their home-owning freedoms away and pay monthly for the privilege.

But in the Philippines it might make sense. The major issue is a simple matter of security since, at least for the time being, I will be traveling back and forth to the US for business. If I need to be in America for a few months, I don’t want to worry about my house being disassembled piece-by-piece and carried off to be processed into napkin holders or hotdogs or some such.

A problem specific to the Philippines is the videoke phenomenon. Essentially, videoke is the name Filipinos use for karaoke. But they like it really loud. And in general Filipinos can’t quite sing as well as, say, William Hung. Remember him? Videoke bars are commonly just run from within a family’s living room, and whoever can afford to buy a videoke machine can open up a new bar. That person might just be your neighbor, and it might just go on all night, unless you happen to live in a subdivision with a homeowners association that has rules preventing that sort of thing.

Plus I can probably park my car there for a few months and not have to worry about it too much. Subdivisions also seem to have the best chance of high-speed internet too.

So you add it all up and suddenly buying in a subdivision makes sense. Give a guy a wedding and he goes right down the tubes, doesn’t he? :)

Next up, a family…

Saturday, September 29th, 2007

Just for the record, we are officially the happiest husband and wife on the planet.

Due to the recent engagement, wedding, and honeymoon activities here, I’m way behind on my work. I just wanted to let everyone know that I am now a married man. All you single girls can stop calling me now. ;)

I will try to fill in more details later.